Do You Give Good Face?

R.B.F. is all the rage now. I am not sure how much of that I get but it works for some people. However for me , it does not work at all!! No matter how hard I try to make RBF (resting bi*** face) work. It is not me.

And that’s OK. Maybe it does not work for. Or maybe you do not want to present that kind of aura.

Whatever message you want to send, make sure your face corresponds with the message that is ideal for you and your brand. I am not saying smile all the time with a fake robot smile. How crazy is that? But, focus on what your face is saying to other people.

Do a personal body scan. How tense do your face muscles feel? How tense is your upper back? How is your stance? Where are your hands? How do you feel? Are you feeling happy and chipper or intense and serious?

Make sure your outside matches your inside. Make sure your message is on brand. Make sure your stance is presenting you and your brand in the most accurate way.

Back to RBF. For some people it works. It is their brand. For me and probably others, it does not work. So, find what works for you. Are one of those people that you look natural and health smiling? Smiling is great. Smiling says “I am approachable.” When you trying to present your brand in a way to get more eyes on you, perhaps smiling is your method.

Do not forget to be relaxed and comfortable. People can tell when you are faking or looked forced. They probably will not tell you but they can tell. So just have fun and remember to check yourself before you wreck yourself (which includes or image/brand).